tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post5127562490527658954..comments2024-03-06T13:41:15.527+05:30Comments on LOL: Life Of Leo: Tame Her, Else Blame HerSoumyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-88688268940898447222015-07-20T13:08:08.236+05:302015-07-20T13:08:08.236+05:30I'm happy for you :)I'm happy for you :)Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-17246022269315243152015-06-29T19:24:06.791+05:302015-06-29T19:24:06.791+05:30The post is perfect and there is so much more to i...The post is perfect and there is so much more to it that happens around with all of us. The quote that you have put up, it's lovely and that's exactly what my MIL is..! and I love her to the core, because she loves me the way I am and encourages to be me :)<br /><br />CheersBoisterous Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02989123295379786851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-37676193903087774712015-06-29T18:14:50.814+05:302015-06-29T18:14:50.814+05:30Jealousy is definitely one of the factors. Thanks ...Jealousy is definitely one of the factors. Thanks Pooja :)Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-66224937336395395282015-06-29T18:14:12.966+05:302015-06-29T18:14:12.966+05:30It is all up to the couple as to who they want to ...It is all up to the couple as to who they want to handle. If you master the art of ignoring, then that is the best.<br /><br />Thank you Art for reading :)Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-21186574962448203792015-06-29T16:11:21.609+05:302015-06-29T16:11:21.609+05:30I agree that women hamper the growth of other wome...I agree that women hamper the growth of other women! Maybe it is jealousy. <br /><br />Well written! :)The Side I Hidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04480651179753404752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-33155533018917494662015-06-29T16:03:13.563+05:302015-06-29T16:03:13.563+05:30It is very difficult to live and let live.. the co...It is very difficult to live and let live.. the couple should get together with each other and be there for each other.. once they realize that their priority in life is them and not anybody else... things will be better.. ofcourse this requires maturity from both... <br /><br />also its human nature to find faults with others... the trick is how to ignore :)Arthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00361938268399916452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-78978065988806056122015-06-27T12:41:23.706+05:302015-06-27T12:41:23.706+05:30Being ignorant will not help in this case. This ne...Being ignorant will not help in this case. This needs to be spoken about.<br /><br />Thanks Rashmi :)Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-88755444898495189132015-06-27T12:40:47.622+05:302015-06-27T12:40:47.622+05:30I do understand that the other side very much exis...I do understand that the other side very much exists. Either ways it is woman vs woman.Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-35638921902491752372015-06-27T12:40:08.576+05:302015-06-27T12:40:08.576+05:30Never shall, never will. I might give them a piece...Never shall, never will. I might give them a piece of my shoe as well :PSoumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-14279806525515682692015-06-27T12:39:21.234+05:302015-06-27T12:39:21.234+05:30Thank you Preethi for reading.
I don't know w...Thank you Preethi for reading.<br /><br />I don't know why some women just cannot accept other women the way they are. Live and let live. This would have made things so simple.Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-69457921767174074592015-06-27T12:38:29.615+05:302015-06-27T12:38:29.615+05:30Ditto! That's the best way out.Ditto! That's the best way out.Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-53633956302414340922015-06-27T12:38:05.384+05:302015-06-27T12:38:05.384+05:30If only women came together to accept other women ...If only women came together to accept other women as they are.Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-3418609467796283842015-06-27T12:37:35.085+05:302015-06-27T12:37:35.085+05:30Envy, overpossessiveness and insecurity mostly.
E...Envy, overpossessiveness and insecurity mostly.<br /><br />Even I get that "You don't look married" more often than not. I don't understand what that is supposed to mean.<br /><br />Women have problems with other women. Period.Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-12610408047545797942015-06-27T12:35:56.600+05:302015-06-27T12:35:56.600+05:30It is so irritating to meet such people. But when ...It is so irritating to meet such people. But when will these things change?Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-32929353676784408292015-06-27T12:35:03.358+05:302015-06-27T12:35:03.358+05:30I totally agree with you on it.I totally agree with you on it.Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07439590494620390907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-26346813645866662262015-06-27T05:52:03.097+05:302015-06-27T05:52:03.097+05:30Nice post Soumya.:) Irrespective of gender, no one...Nice post Soumya.:) Irrespective of gender, no one has right to mock at others. Every has their own life and reasons. In contrast, ignorance is bliss, as some people never change.Rashmi Karthikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07501639785841438385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-27592501571776571122015-06-26T20:34:32.680+05:302015-06-26T20:34:32.680+05:30While I agree with everything what you have writte...While I agree with everything what you have written I want to bring to your notice another side of the picture where woman harasses another woman and in my case it's opposite when a lady in my acquaintance uses the feminist arguments to harass and use her elderly mother-in-law!! When she spend the whole day lying lazily in her room gossiping with her kins and let her MIL do all the house chores and when she complains being older than her, she starts fighting and cursing her in laws for ruining her life. And that makes me wonder if feminism is failing to reach the correct audience!! and instead becoming a weapon of hatred in the hands of wrong people. Roohi Bhatnagarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06278521377428515783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-44490296448941738472015-06-26T20:02:53.526+05:302015-06-26T20:02:53.526+05:30We have spoken so much about this topic, time and ...We have spoken so much about this topic, time and again, but it never ends, does it? It's a very pathetic state of affairs that more than men, women are more into this blaming game. How could they be so callous? Next time, when you see those 2 women in your apartment discussing such things, give them a piece of your mind, I say. Boggleheadhttp://www.keirthana.in/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-76036955116631044992015-06-26T19:32:23.245+05:302015-06-26T19:32:23.245+05:30I agree Soumya. Women often are the ones who bring...I agree Soumya. Women often are the ones who brings about such prejudices and injustice to other women. Men are becoming more supportive but his mother can ruin things for his wife. Have seen many instances . I have faced<br />a few such insults for being dark , for not knowing to cook like a master chef and stuff. But as they were strangers whom I didn't respect or love, I was able to ignore them. But I can imagine the pain that would come if family members resort to such discriminations and taunts. Daughter in laws are sometimes treated as shrews who needs to be tamed. It is pathetic.<br />Very well written.Preethi Venugopalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17187379434511139078noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-42134798474781002202015-06-26T15:30:09.264+05:302015-06-26T15:30:09.264+05:30When women don't stand up for other women, I d...When women don't stand up for other women, I don't know what to say. Perhaps they have nothing better to do or their minds are really empty, either way I would like to steer clear of such people with swollen heads and only rubbish on their tongues.Rachnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02275266551382931603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-35841810891280444692015-06-26T14:03:34.740+05:302015-06-26T14:03:34.740+05:30It is always the Indian women's fault. It'...It is always the Indian women's fault. It's not just MILs who blame their DILs, but vice versa too. The FIL, hubby and BIL can throw a tantrum an hour, but it is all accepted and forgiven, because "they are men". Oh but if the MIL or SIL does something old-fashioned or weird or just plain bad, that's the story that's repeated to the wife's own mom and her girl friends! <br />If there is a female divorcee living in the building, it's the females of the society who talk bad about her behind her back.<br />God, I could go on and on! Chicky Kadambarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04170747335063502107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-19891863966693165352015-06-26T13:53:23.136+05:302015-06-26T13:53:23.136+05:30You know, like you said, I am also lucky enough to...You know, like you said, I am also lucky enough to have married into a supportive family. My mother in law has never been spiteful to me, ever, and I am glad.<br />But these issues that you have highlighted exist, and yes, it is always women who propagate hate against other women. Don't know if it's envy or senseless overpossessiveness over the son or what. <br />I have faced instances where women contemptuously make this remark about me "You don't look married." Help me understand, how does a person "look" married? Do they look battered and tortured? And why the contempt? <br />I could go on... but zipping it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17697257932538891256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-21661163137227858182015-06-26T12:01:27.649+05:302015-06-26T12:01:27.649+05:30What a brilliant post Soumya!! Every word is so tr...What a brilliant post Soumya!! Every word is so true about the plight of Indian women.<br />These groups of ladies can be found everywhere,whose business is just talking about other women's attire and judging them. <br />I have even seen mothers-in-laws who talk so highly about their working sons but don't care a damn about their working dils (who by the way manage job, home, kids and everything else in between)<br />I have only 3 words to such women : SHAME ON YOU!<br />Anithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02003897534863175260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9140698802730756464.post-81876372888726326382015-06-25T23:24:13.442+05:302015-06-25T23:24:13.442+05:30Soumya you nailed it. This hypocrisy when it comes...Soumya you nailed it. This hypocrisy when it comes to women by men and women, I don't get it at all. Khana acha se pakaye nahin the woman fault, the husband forgetting to bring kids to the park, he must be tired. I have always believed when a couple get married they should stay separately no matter how good parents are. It matters a lot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com