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Monday Musings #5

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The Blind Side

Image Source Last week during my break, I watched ' The Blind Side ' on TV. Again. I have seen this movie more than five times and I fall in love with it every time I watch it. This is the movie that won Sandra Bullock her Oscar and it was so rightly deserved. There is not a dull moment in the movie and every character is so perfectly cast. The plot is neat, tight and quick. And most importantly it touches your heart like nothing else has ever done. It leaves you feeling happy thinking that the world actually is a nice place. For those who have not seen it yet, please watch it as soon as you can. Released in 2009, The Blind Side is the story of Michael Oher aka Big Mike who has been living in a foster care with different families. He has a troubled childhood with a drug addict mother and a runaway father. He has a poor academic record but is good at athletics thanks to his big size. Burt Cotton, the coach of Wingate Christian School takes him into the school thanks to ...

Step Aside, Bollywood

Image Source Most of the Hindi movies these days are below average. Ofcourse there were quite a few good ones in between, but that happens very rarely. For a person like me who hates to stay at home during weekends, movies are the first place I go to for entertainment. But what happens when there is no good movie playing? I tried to shop, spent a lot of money but did not feel good enough. Went out drinking with my friends exploring the nightlife of the city , had a wonderful time and yet something was missing. You see there is no activity where you can put up your legs, munch on some popcorn and just unwind unless you are at the movies. So when no good movie was playing in town I decided to watch them at home itself. My husband and I make a large bowl of popcorn, pour in some Merlot and park ourselves on the couch and watch a few good old movies. The first time I heard about Stand Up Comedy was when a friend of mine shared a video of Russel Peters. I found it hilarious. I ende...

Why I Write

Image Source If I am having a crappy day Or when every thing is going alright I do not ponder over it too much I feel happy when I just write Poetry takes over me completely Elevating my day from drab to bright Everything seems to be sorted When I just sit down and write Fiction is a challenge to me But in a dark room it is my lone light I think of characters and their quirks The story just flows when I write Weird people are my favorite topic I write about them without a fright I only talk about what actually happened I don't see why I should not write It helps me clear the chaos in my mind Be it during day or in the middle of night Every piece just fits into the puzzle When I decide to sit back and write Most of my posts create controversies Tongues of others then begin to take flight While these losers are spending time stalking me I just laugh out loud and continue to write What I do is first for myself Thank...

Action Replay - July 2015

Image Source I still remember welcoming July some time ago and here I am welcoming August. July passed away in a blink, but did not fail to leave behind its impacts. My release at work was done and I had a considerable amount of time free with me. When this happens, I go into a negative trip. I know that I always talk about how busy work is keeping me and how I have time for nothing else. But when I'm free, I feel worthless. No, seriously. Sitting at work with almost nothing to do makes me feel like I am not capable of anything. Having a day free makes me feel guilty for getting paid inspite of not doing any work. I know a lot of people who do this regularly, but it doesn't work for me. Not working makes me feel bored, hungry, sleepy, moody, tired and annoyed at the same time. I snap at people, binge eat, battle drooping eyelids and mutter abuses. It is a horrible place to be in. I need to be busy, with something or the other. Else it makes me feel very very bad. All soci...

Rain Pain

Image Source This is something that everyone loves I absolutely enjoy moments in the rain But at times it puts an halt to all my plans Ruining everything, causing me terrible pain I love the sweet smell of the petrichor And the cold breeze that comes with it But when you are living in a city like mine Traffic is the first thing to get hit I love the memories that come with rain Causing me to smile, and at times to cry The thing that I hate the most about rains Is that the washed clothes never dry The mild drizzle is a pleasure to watch I love the sound of pitter patter on my window pane But once done it is so difficult to step out Due to the umpteen tiny pools in the lane The air around feels so cool and nice The perfect time for some hot coffee dash But when you decide to take a stroll down the street Someone is bound to spray you with a muddy splash I love the chirping of birds during monsoon They sound so happy, fresh and g...

Free Fall

Image Source There is this tingling sensation that I feel Of butterflies and the chant of a saxophone  I hear the birds chirping more clearly Every sound has now taken a musical tone The world suddenly seems like a better place Even a sip of water intoxicates me I am lost in an endless dreamy trance That is prettier than what my eyes can see This feeling is extremely beautiful I never want to let go off it I see an array of endless candles And my life is now miraculously lit Nothing around bothers me anymore Happiness is the only thing that I feel Finally I have an answer to all my questions All the loose ends are now tightly sealed Colors now have a new meaning to me Every shade takes me to a different land My mind is busy spinning a bright tale Larger than life, something very grand They say once you are in, you cannot get out But I have already made up my body, mind and soul I have left behind incomplete parts of me ...

Action Replay - May 2015

Image Source Since May started with a vacation, it was a relaxing month to begin with. Cal and I came back all refreshed and rejuvenated. We love travelling and Goa is a place that we visit atleast once a year. Travelling is something that gives us immense peace and is something that we indulge in as often as we can. Travelling with Cal is a wonderful experience as he is the best ever travel buddy you can ask for. Both of us are no nonsense people and are very local. We do not like to stay in resorts or five star hotels, as we are out most of the time. We like to explore the hidden places in a city and create memories. Cal being a vegetarian finds it difficult to find some good veg food in Goa. But he goes out of his way to make sure that I get my full of sea food. After a wonderful vacation we came back to the regular grind of work. And our latest passion, gardening. There are so many things that we have wanted to do together but were unable to do so before. But now we are mor...

Care For Your Hair #NioxinNowInIndia

The products and the salon tour. Last week I had the privilege of attending yet another blogger meet in Bangalore, this time organized by the wonderful people of Blogadda . This was my first ever Blogadda meet and I was super duper excited. First, because the people of Blogadda are so awesome. And second, because the event was for a hair product. If you know me even one percent you will know how obsessed I am with my hair. Third, I was getting to meet my favorite blogger Shailaja again. Since the event was at 12.30 pm, Shailaja and I decided to meet up early for a brunch and then attend the event. We had a wonderful time chatting and discussed a lot of bloggers and their work. After the brunch we arrived at the Bodycraft salon in Koramangala and met a lot of other wonderful bloggers. A total of twelve bloggers were invited for the event. Now coming to event; the event was the launch of the hair care product Nioxin in India. We were first given a tour of the salon, which wa...

Action Replay - March & April 2015

Image Source So let's be honest, how many of you noticed that I had missed the action replay post for March? April passed by so quick, all thanks to the A to Z challenge. It was one hell of a testing month and I feel so proud to have completed the challenge successfully. I had zero posts scheduled and every post was written on that very day. Expect the Z one though. That I had to schedule, as I was travelling on the 30th and had no access to Internet what so ever. This A to Z challenge for 2015 has been very close to my heart as I wrote about a lot of things that are personal to me. I wanted to talk about a lot of issues and thoughts that were plaguing my mind and I managed to include it in my posts during the challenge. Also I managed to write quite a few sponsored posts that gave me some pretty decent additional income. But then again as always, I only chose to write about the topics that I seriously believed in. Now I see that I have more than 30 posts for the month of Apr...

Bangalore's Night Life

Image Source Initially Bangalore night life was frowned upon as everything was shut down by 11.30 pm. But since the new Government rules came into effect, night life in Bangalore is one of the best in the country. Apart from IT, Bangalore is famous for the pub culture and Bangaloreans love their drink and they know how to party. Almost every posh area in Bangalore is now home to a number of drinking holes. In addition to these there are a good number of discotheques in Bangalore , where you can go and dance to some wonderful music. Indiranagar and Koramangala being the party hub of the ever bustling and happening city. I saw a recent statistic which shows that the number of drinking joints in Koramangala is more than the number of drinking joints in the whole of Kerala. Bangaloreans are more often than not spoilt for choice, when it comes to visiting pubs. There are so many options that it would take a lifetime to explore all. Bangaloreans are not alcoholics, they know how...

A Happy Baby Is The Best Teacher

A few days back I wrote about how I did not know anything about babies. I do know what they like, what they don't, how to handle them and what makes them happy and pleased. I get a negative score when it comes to babies and I was more than happy about being ignorant about these things. But little did I know what I was in store for. I did not know I would have to learn all of this in the most toughest way possible. And that too not with my own baby. Last week, I visited my friend after a long time. She has a little toddler of about ten months and that little girl is one cranky kid. My friend was exhausted from all the daily chores and wanted to relax for a while. The baby was sleeping, so we dimmed the light and sat by the window with a cup of tea and caught up on our gossip. I was visiting her after a long time and it felt nice to get back to how we were before. But with the first sip, we heard a wail and rushed to see our little princess all awake and irritated. I looked...

Action Replay - February 2015

Image Source The month of February 2015, was one of the most important months of my life. It was during this month that Cal and I moved out to a place of our own. And the whole experience was so awesome that I am in love with my life twice as much as I was before. Cal and I moved out because there was no space in his parent's place and we wanted to give his little brother some privacy by having his own room. But not one soul has understood this. Everyone thinks that we moved out because I had an issue with my in-laws or over some property issues. When I tell people that we moved out, the first thing they say is " Oh, I understand it is difficult to stay with in-laws ", or " What happened? Full fights? ", or " I'm so happy for you! ". Happy for me? But why? I seriously do not understand why people interpret things for themselves. Everyone makes a decision based on something of their own. Just because half the world moves out of the house bec...

It Is Never Too Late To Look Up

Image Source Heartbreak is one of the most toughest of pains. It refuses to leave and always takes away a part of you. My first heartbreak was when I was fairly young. I had just started working and I knew that a long distance relationship would not survive. And as expected, it went down the drain in the most horrible way possible. Life is cruel at times. When one thing goes wrong, everything around goes wrong as well. That was one of the most toughest period of my life. I was away from family in the most horrible city ever, had just gotten out of a relationship, the cultural difference was taking a toll and my health was gone for a toss. I thought well, this is it. This is how my life is going to be always. I felt a mixture of emotions within me and none of them were pleasant. I refused to get out of the moping phase and sat pondering about what went wrong, without bothering about what I could do to set things right. At times life does that to you. It shows you only emptin...

Why I Think #HairIsFashion + Win A Free Makeover

Image Source Considering that was last post was called ' Mane Obsession ' you can imagine how crazy I am about my hair. And this fact will never ever change. Thanks to the wonderful shampoo I tried recently , my hair is at its best now making me feel more proud about it. For me hairstyles plays a very important role in looking stylish and fashionable. Of course you cannot wear some classy clothes and walk around with messy hair. You cannot wear a pencil skirt and have oiled hair, can you? Hairstyle defines a look and is very very (I cannot stress this enough) important. I have seen some women and men wearing the best of clothes but with a hairstyle that does nothing to them or to the style that they are trying to carry off. A hairstyle should be like the clothes you wear or the make-up you apply. It has to go with the entire look and not clash anything. All it takes is a little effort to look chic and sleek. A beautiful hairstyle is the best accessory that one needs....

Mane Obsession - 2

Image Source It has been a month since I started using the Triple Nutrition shampoo from Garnier. A lot has happened to my hair during this month. First, I got it colored. Second, I traveled 60 kilometers on a bike with my hair loose. Third, since I shifted my house there was a water change. Four, in Bangalore it rains during day, the sun shines at its peak during noon and nights are as chilly as it can get. All these elements played havoc with my hair. This also put this shampoo to its ultimate test. So did it pass? Well, we shall see. In my last post , I had mentioned that my hair is thick and looks silky, but it actually feels rough. At times, it feels dry and no amount if serum can make it smooth. I was skeptical about coloring my hair at first, but then I went ahead with it and got some red streaks done. I thought I must use a color protection shampoo to maintain this, but I was too lazy to go out and buy one. This shampoo did the trick for me. The color stayed and my ...